Archives for January 1, 2023

By: Tim Graves, PGA

Thought it was about time to start talking about fall / winter practice. I know for most of us it is time we are inside, and when inside, some of us try to figure out ways to practice to get ready for the spring.

Before we get into any details – wanted to review a little about practice (especially when working on new habits over the fall / winter).

It is essentially impossible to break bad habits (our mind/body is not set up that way) … but we are set up to be able to create new habits and ultimately make changes/create new movements, etc.  we want.

Sustaining Progress

Developing your skills (and talent) is like taking a cross-country hike. You will encounter challenges, you will hit snags, plateaus and steep paths; motivation will ebb and flow. To sustain progress, it’s necessary to be FLEXIBLE one moment and STUBBORN the next, to deal with immediate obstacles while staying focused on the horizon (or your ultimate goals).

Don’t Waste Time Trying to Break Bad Habits – Instead Build New Ones

I bet I talk about this so many times in our schools, many of our students probably get “sick” of hearing it.

When it comes to dealing with bad habits, many of us attack the problem head-on, by trying to break the habit. This tactic, of course, doesn’t work. And we are left with the old truth – habits are tough (if not impossible) to break.  The blame lies with our brains.  While we are really good at building circuits (creating habits), we are awful at quitting them. Trying as you might to break a bad habit, it is still there, waiting patiently for a chance to be used.

So, what do we do?

The solution is to ignore the bad habit and put your energy toward building a new habit that will override the old/bad habit.

To build new habits, start slowly. Expect to feel stupid, clumsy, uncomfortable, and even frustrated at first…. after all, the new “wires” in your brain haven’t been built yet. Your brain still wants to follow the old “comfortable” pattern. Build the new habit by gradually increasing the difficulty, little by little. It takes time, but it’s the ONLY way new habits are created and grow.

To Learn It More Deeply, Teach It

Here is the issue. Every good golfer, every golfer who learns something new/reaches a goal, etc… must be their own best teacher. If you cannot teach yourself, your ability to make changes, create new habits, reach goals, etc… will occur in a much slower rate.

This is not saying you must create everything yourself, but it is saying you must take what you learn and translate into self-teaching.

Think about it – how much time to you spend practicing, and how much of that practice time is with someone teaching you?

If you are like most, 90% + of your practice time is on your own, trying to create new habits, etc… on your own. Meaning, you must be able to make sure you are doing things correct, must be able to make sure you are “going down the correct path”.

A great way to determine if you can teach yourself it ask yourself “Could I teach this (new habit I am trying to learn) to someone else?”

This works because when you communicate a skill to someone, you come to understand it more deeply yourself. Also, when you see someone struggle, and help them through it, you improve your ability to deal with your own struggles.

The saying “Those who can’t do, teach” should be rewritten as “Doers who teach do better!”

Give a New Skill a Minimum of Eight Weeks

When it comes to growing/creating/developing new skills, eight weeks seems to be an important threshold. It’s the length of many top-level training programs around the world, from the Navy SEAL’s physical – conditioning program to the mission training for the Mercury astronauts. A recent study at Massachusetts General Hospital showed the practicing meditation for twenty-seven minutes a day created lasting brain changes in (you guessed it) eight weeks.

Of course, this doesn’t mean that you can be proficient in any skill in eight weeks. Rather, it underlines two more basic points:

1)  Constructing and honing new habits takes time, no matter who you are, and

2) Resilience and grit are vital tools, particularly in the early stages of learning. Don’t make judgements too early.

Keep at it, even if you don’t feel immediate improvement. Give your talent (your brain) the time it needs to grow and create new habits.

Please watch upcoming newsletters for more winter practice tips.

By: Tim Graves, PGA

Whether looking to fit/replace a single club to an entire set, from a putter to a driver to your irons, wedges, etc.. it is ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL that the club(s) is fit to YOUR individualized swing and single plane specifications.

An UNfit club will hinder your improvement process, an UNfit club will hinder your golf game, an UNfit club will not allow you to reach your potential, an UNfit club can and many times will actually physical hurt you (tendonitis in elbows and wrists are many times causes and exaggerated by club with improper lie angles), and UNfit club is basically worthless to you. I don’t care how much you spent for the golf club(s) – if they are not individually fit to you – they are worthless to your game – and worse than that, can and many times will actually “hurt” you.

The Graves Golf Academy has custom fitting programs established with most major manufacturers in the golf industry. And many of the manufacturers install our grips in their custom department (no other instruction group can say that….). We have worked VERY HARD to set this customizing system up for our customers, students, etc. anyone interested in the single plane golf swing.

Also, because of the amount of equipment we sell from each manufacturer, we are many times offered equipment at a reduced rate for our customers. We are always able to match industry pricing and many times able to beat the pricing. We are also many times able to offer clubs at a significantly reduced price (last year’s models, etc. as these manufactures know how many clubs we sell and “hold some back” for us). Please watch our newsletters (bimonthly) for these specials – as they typically don’t last long as many are interested in these special pricings.

Customization done at the manufacturer (Callaway, Taylormade, Titleist, etc..) is free through the Graves Golf, there is no added cost for the GGA grips installed and customized at the manufacturers. Plus, there is no shipping charge (within US) and no tax (outside of OK) through Graves Golf.

To get a FREE individualized custom fitting please go to:  http://moenormangolf.com/clubs/free-club-fittings/

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By: Shane Matzen, Graves Golf Single Plane Academy Liaison

I will tell you upfront, the longer I’ve been associated with Graves Golf, both as a member of our Single Plane Academy and now on our staff, one of the things that has fascinated me most has been the mental game.  Or, as Moe would like to say, “An Alert Attitude of Indifference”.  I’ve always appreciated that Tim and Todd make it a point to include this as part of their agenda when they teach us everything about Single Plane Golf.  You name it:  AAI Schools, AAI MasterClass, bringing the mental game expert, Paul Monahan, aboard to contribute….the list goes on and on.  They always make sure that we recognize that we must train our mind as well as our flexibility and ability to hit our positions.

What prompted me to write about this topic was a chat session on the now-in-progress Alert Attitude of Indifference MasterClass.  One of our members asked a question in the very-cool, interactive zoom session about using a big portion of the backswing as his personal “waggle”.  Tim thought about it for a second and came back with something like this, “Well, normally we don’t want you taking practice swings.  But if taking your club back to a position, checking it for a second and then pulling the trigger MAKES YOU COMFORTABLE, then by all means.”  And then the discussion went into the professionals that do just such a thing before their swing (see Justin Thomas).

Well, as has been mentioned many times on our SPA Facebook group, in my weekly videos there and in this space, I get a real kick out of analyzing things.  Sometimes that borders dangerously on OVER-analysis but in this case, I’m not going to cross that line.  Stay with me through a few examples….

Tim and Todd have always taught us that there is a proper amount of time after we set up to the ball that we should execute our swing.  And we’re talking here only about a few seconds.  I loved Tim’s reference in the aforementioned AAI chat that if we go past that point of a few seconds, our minds are going to invariably go to the technical or negative and thus, make it impossible to mindlessly just EXECUTE.  Or in other words, do what we’re supposed to do when we get into what Todd has taught us in the Green Zone.  

I had an issue when I was very young taking my medicine in the form of pills.  My mom came up with a genius method to make it happen and end the aggravating-to-her discussion that I just couldn’t do it.  She put my pill in a glob of jelly in a spoon and reminded me how much I love grape jelly and to just swallow it all down at once.  All of a sudden, my mind went to the jelly and well, you can guess how that went…..instant success!

Fast forward to my freshman year in high school.  Basketball season and not to brag, but I was having a really good season.  At one point in the year, I’d made 21 consecutive free throws in games and ended the year shooting 79% from the line.  The next season, 15 years old and a sophomore I made the varsity and started most of the season for a team that I’d like to think was the best team we’d had to date in the history of our high school.  We ended up winning 26 games and advanced deep into the postseason.  My job was to play defense and rebound as we had plenty of scorers and I was happy to fill that role.  What really bothered me though was I ended that season shooting 48% from the line.  Now what was different?  Well, let me list the ways:  we played most games in front of packed houses that season, the importance of the games was ratcheted up about 1000%, I had more people depending on me and being 15 in and of itself was just the cherry on top to deal with everything.

From the first time I began to love basketball, Julius Erving was my hero.  Dr J could do it all and though I couldn’t swoop around the backboard and perform highlight reel dunks, I COULD follow his free throw routine.  From the beginning, I dribbled five times, spun the ball around, took a deep breath, looked at the rim and then put up the shot.  Up until that 1983-84 season, this had always worked for me.  But even back then, my brain would go into coach mode and I self-analyzed pretty deeply that offseason leading into my junior year.  I knew my technique was good so what would cause me to drop 27 percentage points?  It didn’t take me long to come to the conclusion that I was getting in my own way.  My junior and senior years my routine (as much as I hated to leave my Dr J-like routine) became two dribbles, set and fire.  I ended up getting back into the high 70s again and hit a couple of late free throws my senior year to win our own tournament which I’ll spare you the importance of to someone growing up in Eldon, MO and the history of that event (which this year will be 90 years old).

One more hoops-related story for you….1993 comes along and I’m a head basketball coach for the first time and my point guard is a young man who was supremely-skilled with confidence to go with it.  He could handle the ball, was a tremendous/unselfish passer of the ball and a really good shooter.  But you can guess it, history repeated itself and he was struggling at the free throw line.  I proceeded to tell him my story and it was our first year together and we were still in the feeling-out stage so he was nice enough to tell me he’d consider changing his routine.  I was ok with that because a routine is a very personal thing and was not something, to me, that you create ultimatums on.  I kept an eye on him the next couple of days at practice and I could tell he was experimenting with some things at the charity stripe.  We got to the next game though and he pulled this out of his hat:  the referee handed him the ball for his first free throw that night and the moment it touched his hands, the shot went up.  Yep, no dribble, no spin, no nothing.  He just shot it.  If I recall, he went about 8/9 that night and the one he missed we got the offensive rebound because our guys knew what he was doing and were able to get in position for an offensive board before the other team even knew what was going on.  Needless to say, this is a story I’ve gotten a lot of mileage out of.  

Present day now and I’m all in on “Matching the Model”.  I’ve always thought Todd’s routine is a solid one so I’ve tried emulating it.  But my waggle has evolved and while probably 85% of what I do is Todd Graves-like, there’s some differences.  But hearing what Tim said in his chat that I mentioned at the beginning of this article makes me feel as Tim would say, “comfortable” in my own skin as far as my prep to swing the club.  While there’s no jelly involved in my process, making sure “less is more” is a big part of what I try to do in preparation for a swing.  

My mind is pretty persuasive over the rest of me and sometimes I literally feel like I have the proverbial angel on one shoulder and the devil on the other both whispering in my ears.  I just don’t give them the time to make their point.  

For those of you who are mentally strong enough to just turn to each shoulder and say “Shut up!” and those dudes go away, I’m jealous.  For those of you like me though, my hope is you’ll join me in this quest to find ways to just shut off the negative conversations and beat back our demons.  We CAN do it.  We just have to find the way that works for us.