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The “Pep Talk” (A MUST READ..)

By: Tim Graves, PGA

This past week I received an email from Chris Anderson (Graves Golf Alumnus / Level 5 Member) about a recent tournament he played in. After the original email, I asked him to expand about his “pep talk”. And received a GREAT email I suggest all read.

Original email from Chris:

Two weeks ago I finished second in my tournament! I shot 42-37 for 79! I teed off on #1 and as you can see, the front nine did not go well. I couldn’t hit a fairway to save my life lol. I gave myself a pep talk at the turn, used some of the techniques we learned at the AAI School, and was five shots better on the back nine! This included two birdies ( one on the 18th hole).

Follow Up email from Chris (About the “Pep Talk”):

Good Afternoon Tim,

Here is a rundown of the pep talk I gave myself at the turn:

As I walked off the 9th green I was pretty steamed and frustrated to say the least. Especially since I had a great warm up. I felt great, was chalk-full of confidence, and was ready to go. I couldn’t wait to get to the first tee and let it fly. On the front nine, I couldn’t hit a fairway to save my life. I had a couple lip outs and I missed a really short putt. I shot six over par (42) for the first nine holes of the tournament.

As we made our way from the 9th green to the 10th tee box we stopped to grab a drink, use the bathroom etc. I jumped out of the cart and walked into the clubhouse so I could get away from everyone and be alone. I was thinking/saying to myself, “What the heck is going on?” I was frustrated and genuinely bewildered at the same time. After a few minutes of feeling sorry for myself and having a pity party (reality wasn’t matching the vision I had in my mind) I collected myself and thought, “Ok, new 9. New life! You’ve been here before, so there’s no need to panic.” There’s lots of birdies out there. Plenty of opportunities. You got all your bad shots out of the way, so now you can turn and burn. Attack the back 9!

As I stepped to the 10th tee box I adopted a new strategy. The course was very narrow and each fairway was treelined, guarded by bunkers, and lots of fescue just was waiting to gobble up your golf ball. I decided to take the driver out of play and do whatever I had to do to get the ball in the fairway off the tee. I even thought about hitting a 6 iron off the tee. I decided to hit my trusty 7 wood off each tee. 200 to 210 yards. Not particularly far but always straight. I did the math in my head and accepted that I would have to hit 7,8, maybe a 9 iron into each green. Perfect. No sweat. My first and foremost priority was to get the ball in the fairway. Plot my way around the course one shot at a time. Time to rock n’ roll! 

It was a chilly day so I employed the tactic we talked about a month or two prior. On my approach shots, I clubbed up and played to the center of the green yardage (unless the pin was way in the back). We’re not playing hero golf, chasing pins, and forcing anything. Nice boring, uneventful golf. We’re certainly not following a bad shot with a stupid shot (LOL Thanks Tim). I told myself before every shot, “This is going to be my best shot of the day!” As I turned things around and started to hit my stride I kept telling myself, “keep going. Just keep going. Don’t give up. Anything can happen out here. (side note, I do not look at the leaderboard during tournaments)

I birdied both par 5’s on the back and shot one over par 37 for a total of 79! Five shots better than my front nine score! I walked into the scoring area to turn my scorecard in and was completely shocked to see I was tied with another guy for the clubhouse lead! There was one guy still out there with a few holes left to play who was playing quite well. We had to wait and see how it would all pan out. I thought to myself, worst case scenario, this gentleman holds on a wins. Best case scenario, I’m in a playoff with a chance to win a golf tournament I thought I was completely out of as I walked off the 9th green. 

As Paul Monahan has stated repeatedly, “You’re never out of the fight and anything can happen.” There is so much truth and wisdom to that.

Well, the gentleman I mentioned previously held on and won the tournament by a single shot. I finished 2nd but I gained priceless knowledge, insight, and I learned something about myself that is worth way more than the trophy I would have won that day. That trophy would have represented a specific moment in time. One particular date. The lessons I learned that day I will be able to take with me for the rest of my life.  

THANK YOU CHRIS!

Would love to hear your comments about Chris’ Pep Talk.

Please email me at timg@gravesgolf.com with comments.

NEW Callaway Spinners

By: Tim Graves, PGA

“Easy to hit” gets thrown around a lot.

So here’s what actually makes the Mini Spinner easy.

Four things:

1. A SHORTER SHAFT

Shorter than a fairway wood.

Shorter means easier to control, and easier to find the center of the face.

2. A DEEP FACE

The deep face profile inspires confidence at address.

And it delivers more consistent contact, especially from the rough.

3. A REFINED STEP SOLE

Callaway refined it so the club is easy to strike consistently from the fairway and the rough.

4. A LIGHTWEIGHT CARBON SOLE

It boosts spin.

Spin is what makes the ball stop.

That’s the whole point of the club.

Put those together and you get the forgiveness of a fairway wood with the stopping action of a hybrid.

5…. There’s a fifth thing Callaway doesn’t build in.

The fit.

Every Spinner I sell is custom fit to your Single Plane specs.

An easy club at the wrong length or lie is still the wrong club.

THEY’RE RUNNING OUT AGAIN

Last time, the Mini Spinner sold out in a few days.

It took about 30 days to get the restock in.

This batch is going the same way.

You can trade in your old clubs toward it (with bonus value added to trade in)

Most major manufacturers accepted, and you keep them until your new Spinner arrives.

Available in 7W, 9W and 11W.

7 Spinner = 7 Wood = 4 hybrid

9 Spinner = 9 wood = 5 hybrid

11 Spinner = 11 wood = 6 hybrid

Its deep face profile inspires confidence and delivers more consistent contact, especially when hitting from the rough.

Forgiveness of a fairway wood with the stopping action of a hybrid..

Contact timg@gravesgolf.com for more information and details.  

I will help you customize individual club(s) or a set that fits you PERFECT and save you the most $. 

Single Plane Academy Level # 4 Information

By Tim Graves, PGA

Been getting A LOT of questions the past few days about Single Plane Academy Level # 4 benefits, etc..

Sure it is because of the “rumor” (true rumor) of our new Scoring University “App” we are about to release.

(A VERY Small example of what is included in Scoring University App Above…)

Here are the benefits (what is included) for ALL Level # 4 members.

1.  Access to Single Plane Academy (SPA).

2.  Access to monthly Members Only 10% Show (Instructional Webinar).

3.  Buy 3 / Get 1 Free ERC Soft Golf Balls (Year Round)

4.  Buy 5 / Get 1 Free Fusion Golf Gloves (Year Round)

5.  Membership specials on Custom Golf Clubs.

6.  Additional 50% Bonus (150%) on all Trade in Clubs (toward new custom golf clubs) (Year Round)

7.  Membership special(s) on training aids and training programs. 

8.  Membership specials on all Graves Golf Schools (plus access to early release before public).

9.  Access to ALL SP30 (Single Plane 30) monthly instructional classes (online) at no charge (Released 1st of each month) ($297 value per class).  (Can get in any SP30 class at no cost – start first of each month). 

10.  Access to ALL SG30 (Single Plane SHORT GAME 30) monthly instructional classes (online) at no charge (Released each month) ($297 value per class).  (Can get in any SG30 class at no cost).  These are due to start April 2027.

11.  Access to All Single Plane University (SPU) classes (online) at no charge (6 released per year) ($699 value per class).(8 classes released in 2025 / 2026.  Hybrid / Fairway wood Mastery just finished, Full Swing Position Feel Class releasing in 2 weeks, Fast Forward Winter Training releasing in December (3 month program), SP Short Game University Releasing in April).

12.  Unlimited Video Coaching with a PERSONALIZED Graves Golf Coach / Assigned Coach. (Email, Phone, Zoom, Video sessions between member and coach).

13. Access to Scoring University (Single Plane University By Demand).  Total Game Overview / Analysis with Personal Coach.

14. Access to NEW Scoring University “App”.   (Releasing in about 2 weeks)(Created to track members entire game through assessments, round stats, etc..  Coach will then monitor members entire game to determine strengths / weaknesses and work with member on specific / specialized improvement).

Currently (once a year..) we are able to open up Level # 4 MEMBERSHIPS for a limited time for a SAVINGS / Special on these memberships.  Level # 4 is VERY limited due to the number of students our instructors can manage.  As you see above, there is a lot of one on one time which limits the number of students per instructor.  We have a few openings in Level # 4 and are willing to offer a SPECIAL off the normal pricing (VERY LIMITED…)

If you would like more information about the Level # 4 membership special (very limited) or you have any questions about benefits listed above, please email me at Timg@gravesgolf.com 

I am happy to help with whatever you need (or get you to the person who is the expert..)

Please let us know what else I can do for you,

Tim

Rethinking Practice and Play

By: Paul Monahan, Graves Golf Mental Game Coach

Two weeks ago – I spent 3 days in Scottsdale with two wonderful and fascinating people in the golf performance space: Lynn Marriott and Pia Nilsson. Lynn and Pia were the long-time coaches to Annika Sörenstam (…only the winningest female player in the history of golf) as well as many other highly successful players on the PGA and LPGA tours.

They have spent their entire careers growing in their own understanding of what creates great performances on the course  â€“ and creating a framework for their

Pia Nilsson (L) and Lynn Marriott (R) teaching at Talking Stick Resort in Scottsdale, AZ

students and clients to “indulge in the experience of play” as Hogan said.  (Incidentally, Lynn worked with Chuck Hogan for many years.)

And while I learned so much about myself and my game that week, among my key takeaways with Lynn, Pia and the Vision54 Team were these:

  1. Our practice sessions can be WAY more productive when we bring purpose to each and every shot.
  2. We can create much better outcomes ON the course when we set aside the need to fulfill swing mechanics objectives and instead focus on what Lynn and Pia refer to as our Human Skills…which we can control.

Practice Slower, Play Faster. This is one of our Alert Attitude of Indifference Big Ten Strategies we teach at our AAI playing schools. It means:

  • That we all benefit by taking a MUCH slower approach to our practice sessions.
  • That instead of raking over and hitting ball after ball after ball, we can be much more productive – and learn a lot more while practicing – when we hit fewer balls – not more.
  • That when every shot has a purpose outside of a technical skill, we can learn to practice hitting shots as an athletic endeavor – not a cognitive one. (Thanks Lynn and Pia for articulating that so well!)

So, what does that look like when I am practicing slower?

  • No more bucket of balls poured-out next to my hitting station. Hit one ball at a time. No more raking over the next ball!
  • Prior to each shot, I am thoughtful about where I want each ball to fly to, it’s trajectory, and perhaps a feeling I am trying to notice.
  • I leave all thinking behind once I step up to the ball…and just “play.” (yes…even in a practice scenario.)

Playing faster on the course is also an important way to rethink your approach to the game. It means:

  • Not lingering over the shot as you are about to hit it.
  • Leaving your THINKING behind when you are executing a shot. (Including thoughts about how to hit position 3, how to keep your primary tilt, how to transition properly…etc.)
  • Creating a deliberate system that gets you to execute a shot in 4-7 seconds instead of 10-20 seconds.

Why is this important? Because executing each shot is an athletic endeavor â€“ not a cognitive one. (Thanks again Lynn and Pia!) The LESS time you spend hovering over the ball, the less chance there is for your (very) active brain to get involved in the process.

As you practice and play over the next few weeks, see if you can do these two things. Practice slower and more purposefully. And when you play, pull the trigger sooner. Stop lingering over the ball. Stop overthinking. Just do.

I think if you can do this, you will have taken an important step toward achieving what Chuck Hogan wanted for all of us to experience when we play. And what Lynn Marriott and Pia Nilsson preach and teach every day. Just play. Just do. Be fearless. Stop getting stuck in your head. Go out and have fun. Loosen your grip on the outcomes. Enjoy the game more.

Stay Healthy!

-Paul

(Reprint from 2020)

How to Drive it Longer

By: Tim Graves, PGA

One of the most common questions we receive (seems every day) is “How can I get more distance?”

There are three areas you can work on/improve to help you get more distance on all your golf shots, in particular, your driver.

And, all of these, you can and SHOULD work on over the fall / winter (training sessions).

Those three areas are:

  1. Driver Technology
  2. Flexibility and Strength
  3. Swing Technique

Let’s break down each area a little.

1.  Driver Technology:

A few years ago, the USGA put together a set of rules limiting how much a golf ball can “rebound” off the face of a driver (a vague description) – thus putting a limit on the distance of the drivers. Since then, the golf industry realizing they can no longer make drivers that can hit it further off the face, have been working on technology that has made the “big” headed drivers more aerodynamic (thus less air resistance in the golf swing) and more prominent sweet spots on the face.

Older technology drivers had sweet spots the size of a dime (some smaller), newer technology drivers have sweet spots the size of half dollars (some even bigger). What that means is balls hit slightly off the middle of the club face will travel much further now.

And the key is the “average driving distance” you have, not the “one” you catch that happens to fly a long way. Meaning, if your sweet spot on the driver is large and you miss hit a few shots (or more) around off the middle of the club face, you will still get good/more “average” driving distance. Meaning, overall you will have less club into the greens, etc. etc.

So, if you are looking to maximize or increase distance – you need to have a driver that is “modern” or at least less than 2 or 3 years old. These newer drivers have large sweet spots and have the highest technology for the least amount of wind/club head resistance in the golf swing.

2.  Flexibility and Strength

The 2nd area to focus on with distance is flexibility and strength. And in that order. Too many worries about strength and not flexibility. Being strong with good, or great, flexibility “allows” you to get in positions in your golf swing to hit the ball with reasonable distance.

As we get older, we lose our strength and more importantly our flexibility, when we start to lose our elasticity, we can no longer create certain angles in the golf swing that will allow us to create “leverage” in the golf swing which in turn produces speed and distance.

We have produced an extensive DVD on this topic. This DVD is set up to test the areas of your body and its flexibility in these areas. It then gives you 3 or 4 exercises you can perform to regain or create increased flexibility (and strength) in those areas. This DVD designed around the single plane swing of Moe Norman – in other words, it takes the eight most significant positions of Moe’s swing and determines if you are flexible enough to “reach” those positions. If not, it gives you “easy” exercises to perform over time that in turn will help you gain those positions and eventually “allow” you to swing the club on plane.

You can see a lot more detail about the Flexibility and Exercise information at: https://shop.singleplanegolf.com/products/improve-your-move?

3.  Swing Technique

Ultimately, the most crucial factor to get more distance is to improve your technique. It is always interesting, one of the things we do at all our schools and camps is to measure our students swing speed. We then correlate it to their driver swing speed and the average distance they should be hitting their driver. For most (those that swing 85 to 90 mph), they should be hitting their driver 230 to 240 yards (with a little roll).

For most, when they find out how far they should be hitting their driver with the speed they currently have, they are shocked. Why are they hitting it so short compared to where “their potential” says they should be hitting it? Because of technique. They are not hitting the golf ball off the “sweet spot” of the club with a “direct hit” from the club that is on the path.

In other words, they are hitting “glancing blows” that is creating side spin which is limiting or reducing the distance they should be hitting their driver.

Working on swing technique – working on getting the club on the proper single plane/path, with a square club face through impact and ultimately, limited to no side spin, will give you the maximum distance.

In conclusion, to answer the all too common question, we get from so many of our students/customers

How can I get more distance?

Answer:

1.  Obtain a new/modern driver that has the highest technology for increased sweet spot and limited wind resistance (aerodynamic).

2.  Work/continue to work on flexibility (especially over the “off-season” months when so many loose elasticities because of an increased static lifestyle) and… 

3.  Always work on improving your technique to maximize the optimal hit on the ball with limited side spin and enhanced sureness of hit.

P.S – Here is the P.S. to this article as EVERYONE will ask this question to us (in person, at schools, during webinars, across emails, etc….).

What is the fastest way to improve technique?

Answer – FIGURE OUT YOUR NEXT STEP TO IMPROVEMENT

To see more about YOUR NEXT STEP TO IMPROVEMENT: CLICK HERE

(You can see the specials associated with the Your Steps Video above)

Please feel free to contact me anytime at timg@gravesgolf.com with questions, comments, etc.

The 4 Cs of a Great Short Game

By: Tim Graves, PGA

During all short game schools we discuss many principles and philosophies of the short game, such as the 4 Cs of the short game.

Wanted to remind everyone about my 4 Cs of a GREAT Short Game. These are/will be covered “in depth” during our short game school and covered in all different areas (putting, chipping, pitching, bunker, specialty shots… especially those specialty short game shots).

In our schools, camps, and clinics (and pretty much anytime you’re around me), you will continually hear how important the short game is for scoring. In this article, I’m going to compare the long game vs. short game then give you my 4 Cs that you must follow to have a great short game.

First, you must be convinced that the short game is the most important part of scoring. Here are a couple facts about the short game.

Fact: The difference between a 30 handicap golfer and a scratch golfer (0 handicaps) is associated with 7 to 10 shots in the long game (shots over 50 yards) and 20 to 23 shots in the short game (shots under 50 yards). Meaning, if you are a 30 handicap golfer and only work on your long game you will only improve 7 to 10 shots toward scratch golf. The best you will ever reach is a 20 handicap. The difference between a 15 handicap golfer and the scratch golfer is associated with 3 to 5 shots in the long game, and 10 to 12 shots in the short game. In other words, if you are a 15 handicap golfer wanting to reach scratch, if you only work on the long game, you will basically never improve beyond a 10 handicap.

Fact: No professional (or scratch golfer) has an advantage in their short game over yours. In other words, the short game is not associated with strength, working out or athletic ability. It is a part of the game that is associated with practicing the correct fundamentals and putting those fundamentals into play at the right time. Ever notice how many young players (talking about 10, 11, 12-year-old juniors) have a great short game. In fact, many compare to the professional’s short games. Don’t you wonder how someone who is 75 pounds soaking wet can compete with the best players in the world? This shows it is not strength, but rather what matters are things like finesse and feel. This is what I call the 4 Cs to the short game: Creativity, Confidence, Commitment, and Critique.

4 Cs

CREATIVITY: The first thing you must do when confronted with a short game shot (pitch, chip, etc.) is to create the shot. Part of the teaching we give our students during their short game instruction is to pick a shot around the green and ask the group to name 5 different ways to play the shot. Most of the time the group is able to name 2 or 3, but almost never 5. An example would be a shot that is 20 to 25 yards off the green with minimal rough between the ball and the hole.

You could:

  1. Pitch the shot to the hole,
  2. Chip the shot into the fringe around the green and roll to the hole,
  3. Putt through the entire rough and fringe,
  4. Hit a flop shot all the way to the hole, or
  5. Hit a 3 wood chip that will have moreover spin and roll to the hole???

The point here is you need to be creative over the shot. I like to call it the “artistic” part of the game.

A good rule of thumb: “Putt when you can, Chip when you can’t putt, Pitch when you have too…” (Aka – the “PCP Rule” – refer to past articles on the PCP Rule). Yes, this is a very basic “rule”, but a good one to fall back on.

COMMITMENT: Once you have created the shot, you must commit to the shot that is the lowest risk for error FOR YOU. If you have a good pitch shot and feel it is the most likely to get the ball close to the hole with the least room for error, hit the pitch shot. Many will feel the chip from the fringe or even the putt will be their lowest risk shot. DON’T think you have to hit a shot in a particular manner because the pros on TV hit it that way, but rather execute the shot YOU feel you can hit with the most confidence.

CONFIDENCE: So now that you have created and committed to the shot, you must play the shot with confidence. This means that if you have chosen to chip the shot, tell yourself you will chip it close, pick your spot you want to hit, use good fundamentals, and with 100% confidence, hit the shot. If you don’t feel confident over the shot, BACK OFF and commit to something different or swing a couple practice swings/chips until you have gained the confidence back. The last of the 4 Cs are:

CRITIQUE: You must critique your short game shots after you have executed them. This is not to say, “I can’t hit a particular shot”, but rather “I had 4 chip and run shots today and only hit 1 good. Therefore, I need to put more practice in the chip and run shot”. Look back at each shot and determine if you need more practice in that area. Here’s a question you can ask yourself and see how well you currently critique your short game: How many of you practice chipping short of the green (maybe into the fringe) and then roll the ball onto the green close to the hole or how many of you when practicing putting, putt balls from off the green (from the fringe or low rough) to the green? I believe that these are the shots that, after you critique your short game, will probably be the shots that need the most practice.

Finally, I believe that EVERYONE can have a GREAT short game. In fact, everyone can have a short game that is as good or better than any professional. But, to get this GREAT short game, you must first learn the proper fundamentals and practice these fundamentals. Then you can use the 4 Cs – Creativity, Commitment, and Confidence and then Critique to bring that short game to the course.

Good Luck and Remember – ALWAYS PRACTICE WITH A PURPOSE!

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